Conversations about abortion should be compassionate, non-judgmental, trauma-informed, and evidence-based, focusing on patient-centered care and active listening. Begin by creating a safe space, using inclusive language, and assessing the patient’s specific needs, feelings, and understanding of their options.
You may start with open-ended questions such as, “”How do you feel about your pregnancy?” or “What thoughts have you had about your options?” Acknowledge that this may be an incredibly challenging and confusing time for the patient. Whatever emotions they are experiencing are normal and valid; there is no “right way” to feel.
Many patients want to know what their options when they learn they are pregnant. As the healthcare provider, you can help the patient understand their options by providing evidence-based information in a non-judgemental way.
Some resources for considering all pregnancy options:
- https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/pregnancy-choices-raising-the-baby-adoption-and-abortion
- Common questions and answers about all these options.
- https://www.all-options.org/find-support/
- A phone line you can call for peer counseling and support resources. They also offer counseling from trained clergy and religious leaders.
It is vital to keep the patient’s autonomy at the forefront of the conversation. Remind the patient that the decision is theirs and should be based on their own values and circumstances. It may be helpful for the patient to identify a trusted support person or to help connect them to counseling resources. Let the patient know that you are also a resource they can return to if they have more questions or concerns.
If a patient chooses to have an abortion, they might have additional questions about the safety and logistics of the procedure. When answering their questions and acknowledging the associated risks and benefits, it is essential to affirm that abortion is an extremely safe and common procedure. If they have questions about potential legal repercussions, paying for an abortion, or how to access an abortion, you can use the information provided on this website and its citations to help answer their questions.